Friday, April 14, 2017

Good Black Friday

    My first "real" job (read: one where I had to fill out a W-2 form and all that jazz) was working retail. I worked at a boutique clothing store that sold pricey, trendy clothes. Which was a little bit odd, because I myself was not very trendy, and I would have said my preference was definitely more towards the frugal side of things. However, I soon realized I loved clothes and didn't mind paying a bit more for higher quality and really unique items. Thankfully, we had many customers who felt the same way. I say that because it was a commission position, so my paycheck depended on how much product I could move. It was much easier when people were on board with paying $100 for a pair of jeans, rather than $10. 
    But anyway, it was while working retail that I fell in love with Black Friday. I know that sounds like an odd thing to say, but when you work commission there is no better day than when customers flock to you in droves, desperate to get the deals and steals they are convinced exist. There is so much energy, and excitement when you know all your hard work is going to result in a big fat paycheck. Plus, we generally had pretty decent customers. When the average total was usually in hundreds (or even, on very rare occasions, over a thousand) you are just dealing with a different type of person. They aren't your average "pick a fight over the bargain bin DVDs" sort of shopper. So, I learned quickly to enjoy Black Friday and the big fat commission checks it brought.

   I did wonder why it was called Black Friday, though. I asked around and heard from various sources that supposedly it gained that title after the Great Depression when the Friday after Thanksgiving was considered the opening to the Christmas shopping season, and due to the massive increase in sales thanks to holiday shoppers, retailers would go from being "in the red" to "in the black", accounting-wise. So I while I still thought that was a little odd, as usually "black" has a more negative connotation, I was satisfied.

    I have maintained my fondness for Black Friday since then, although the reason I like it now has more to do with spending time with my family (we all love to shop) and getting good deals. So that might be part of the reason that I slip up, and when referencing Good Friday (as in the day we commemorate Jesus' death on the cross) accidentally call it "Black Friday". (I know you thought I had lost my mind talking about Thanksgiving shopping at Easter! Don't worry, I do have a point.) I wondered if maybe there was anything in common between the two days so I decided to look up the history of Black Friday, as I am already fairly familiar with the history of Good Friday (Thank you, Jesus!).

    I was interested to find that I had been given bad information. The term "Black Friday" was first used in the sixties, and *not* for positive reasons. It was used by the Philadelphia Police Department to describe the chaos and confusion caused by the masses of shoppers, and was perceived by the PD to be a rather dismal day indeed. As the term continued to gain popularity, it was not highly favored by retailers, and for good reason. When you think of "black" it doesn't really incite positive vibes. Also, it is hard to not to think of things like "Black Thursday"-the name for the day when the bottom fell out of the economy in the U.S. and the Great Depression started. Or, that when we are mourning someone's passing we wear black. It is a color devoid of hope.

   However, with the upbeat-ness that usually accompanies the ability to run a successful retail operation, stores decided to turn things around, and that is where the explanation of the phrase "Black Friday" in terms of financial gains came from. Why not use whatever you can to your advantage? So, they perpetuated the rumor that the moniker came from the profitability of the day, going from being "in the red" to being "in the black".

   And I don't think it is too far of a stretch to say that there are definite similarities between those Fridays-Good and Black. Good Friday-taken alone, without the joy of Sunday, had to feel black. The blackest of any Friday, ever, actually. I cannot begin to fathom the despair that those who had followed Jesus felt. However, before any religious group applied the term, to the enemies of Christ it had to seem like the most good of any Friday. They had won! Or so they thought.

    But just like Black Friday, it seems Good Friday experienced a little bit of an image overhaul. And the turn-around was pretty darn quick. To those who had sought Jesus death, dreaming of the day the would be rid of that trouble-maker, rabble-rouser who turned so many of their carefully protected religious rules on their heads, their victory was short-lived. Good Friday had a black eye by Sunday in their minds. But for those who loved Jesus, Sunday was the day that turned that black day into something Good.

   And now, to me, this day is a day that can be fairly represented by both adjectives. Black, because we should recognize the severity of the price our sin-my sin-exacted on our precious, perfect Savior. A day to remember and mourn the cost of my unworthiness, my unrighteousness.

" ...He poured out His life unto death,    and was numbered with the transgressors.
For He bore the sin of many,    and made intercession for the transgressors." Isaiah 53:12 NIV
   His pure, holy, blemish-free life. For my worthless, ragged, wretched one. It was the most unfair of trades. But, like Black Friday, it took my account from debt to riches. From reddest red of His righteous blood, my glaring hell-red debt was paid, and name added to the "paid" column, from the "owed" line to the "saved" one.

" And when you were dead in trespasses and in the uncircumcision of your flesh, He made you alive with Him and forgave us all our trespasses. He erased the certificate of debt, with its obligations, that was against us and opposed to us, and has taken it out of the way by nailing it to the cross." Colossians 2:13-14 HCSB (emphasis mine)
  Good Friday is good because it was a black Friday, too. Black from the sin, the doubt, the heaviness that cost Christ His life. So, so, good because I was reprieved from the death I was owed as the wages of my sin, what I had worked for and earned was eternal separation. But my debt was paid in full. From red to black.

"For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord." Romans 6:23 NIV 
  I don't need to shop around, the deal of any lifetime was given on Good Friday. His sacrifice is all I need, no cost-comparisons are necessary, I will never find a better offer. Nothing for everything. Death for life. Friday's blackness for Sunday's light. Filthy as night rags for the whiteness of robes of purity.

   I love this Good Black Friday. It is my favorite Friday to celebrate for certain. So, even when I slip up and call it Black Friday, it doesn't really matter because the significance is the same. Today, I stop, I sit, I ponder the wonder of the day that Jesus *willingly* suffered death for me!

"[Jesus]  Who, being in very nature God,    did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing    by taking the very nature of a servant,
    being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man,    he humbled himself    by becoming obedient to death        even death on a cross! Therefore God exalted him to the highest place    and gave him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow,    in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father." Philippians 2:6-11 NIV
   Those who  plotted and planned Christ's death thought they had a good Friday and got a black Friday. But I got all the best parts of both when I asked Christ to be my Savior. Accepting His gift of salvation erased my debts and made every day good-worth living to His glory. I am thankful for all of that day, the black and the good.

Monday, April 10, 2017

To Carson, On Your 9th Birthday

Dear Carson,
          So this year you got an early gift: your little cousin arrived a few days before your birthday! You were so excited that "Hedgie" was here and you couldn't wait to "squish" him. You have always loved a baby ever since you pushed your doll around in your little stroller. You especially love one that is related to you.

    "Hedgie" will have such an excellent example in you of what a godly man looks like. You are still so young, but you already show great maturity in so many areas. You are a fierce and loyal protector of those you love and you have continued to grow in your generous and thoughtful ways. You love to play the host and invite friends and family to our home. You want to take care of those around you. Even today at lunch, you wanted to make sure that you could share your special birthday dessert with everyone. I don't know how many things I would forget without you! You are willing to help me, offering frequently to vacuum for me and take care of other chores. You are really interested in learning to cook-I think you are going to be a real "catch" when you are older! Ha!

     You are doing such a great job overcoming anxieties and learning to try new things. You ran cross-country this fall, and you finished the season strong! Now that you have started soccer you are really in your element. You thought a long time before you chose a sport, and I wouldn't be surprised if you don't stick with it for quite a while! You love to be active, and outside, which makes me glad. You love to show us your "six pack"-we may have a little work to do on modesty and humility. ;)

    You aren't just growing physically strong, though. You are working hard to grow in the Lord, too. You have been my biggest cheerleader as we have worked through the Awana book together this year. I have struggled, but you haven't let me quit. You put a considerable amount of time and effort into learning your sections, and you recite them flawlessly, which makes my heart so happy. You pitch in at church to help without complaining, which considering the amount of time our family spends there is really saying something.

    Moms often say that they wish their kids would stop growing, or at least slow down, but I don't usually think that. I sometimes get sad when I remember what a cute baby or adorable toddler you were, but I am so thankful for who you are now. You are still the same Carson in so many ways, just taller and smarter! I don't just love you, I like you. I don't want to rush your growing up, but I am so glad that you are doing just that. I know the Lord doesn't just have amazing plans for your future-that you are living those plans right now. I am constantly in awe that I get to be a part of that. And so, so thankful. I love you more than I can say.

                                                                                     Mom (aka Simone)

Friday, April 7, 2017

Simple Solutions to Update Your Seasonal Decor (Part 3)

    Simple Solutions to Update Your Seasonal Decor
Part 1
Part 2

     All caught up? Now I will show you a sample setting that I created. The idea here is to show you how to truly implement these ideas in your own home-no matter your style or color scheme.

   For this mock setting, I went with simple colors that will work in almost any home. As a matter of fact, you probably have similar items already! I chose to act as though this person has black and white as part of their color scheme. So I started with those two colors and to make it "Easter" appropriate, I added the third seasonal color: yellow.

     So this person is starting with:
-a chalkboard ($3 Dollar Spot at Target. You could also choose a hanging version)
-small pitcher ($3, again from Target. You could also choose a clear version_
-small black "tray" (this is actually a planter base I got from Ikea for $1. You could substitute a plate or small tray of any type, even a shallow bowl will work)
-small white bowl (this was a gift from Anthropologie, I have no idea what it cost, but you could find a similar item at Target for $2 or so) To elevate it in this photo I have it turned upside down on a small votive holder
Total cost for "base" items- approximately $10. And don't forget, all these things can find uses elsewhere in your home. My tray lives on my bedside table, I can use both the pitcher and bowl as actual dishes, and the chalkboard could have schedules or menu plans on it if it isn't serving as seasonal decor.

   Then I add my "seasonal" touches.
-$3 worth of daffodils (Trader Joe's)
-$1 worth of plastic eggs (I think a dozen is $2 before Easter, I purchased mine on clearance after)
-$3 Dove chocolates (you can definitely choose cheaper candy!)
Total for seasonal touches: $7

   I would not purchase a candle and consider it seasonal decor. I would use a candle that fit into my decor elsewhere. I would not consider that to be something you would want to purchase as a "base" item, though, because color will limit its use. So, consider what accents you have around your home that are colorful, but not single-use.

   I "nested" the eggs in a piece of yellow tissue paper. We are just going to consider that "free", as well as the yellow chalk I used to write on the chalkboard.

   But, you might say, that's easy! Spring is simple, because of flowers, and Easter candy, and eggs! How do I transition this stuff to some other seasons?

Well, I have some examples! Remember-it's April, so I am working with spring colors all around. But I have taken these same pieces and transitioned them to a set-up for Valentine's Day!

   I keep all my decorations for Easter, Valentine's and St.Patrick's together, so I happened to have a few things I could pull out. However, I really limited myself, so you could see you don't have to buy a bunch of stuff to make it work! Same pitcher, same chalkboard, same bowl, same black tray. But I added some tea lights and a small jar candle. I put some washi on the jar candle, I probably should have put some on the tea lights, too. I put a few felt hearts in the bowl, with a little clothespin I bought. I filled the pitcher with straws from the Dollar Spot and changed the art on the chalkboard. I attached the paper hearts (I used a punch, but you could easily just cut some out) with glue dots-but I don't recommend that! It was too sticky and pulled some of the paint off. I would probably just use scotch tape the next time. Or make a tiny garland. So, let's break down cost for this grouping.

-jar candle $2 at Walmart
-tea lights. I bought a huge pack at Ikea for $2, but you could get a smaller pack for around $1
-straws $1 at the Dollar Spot
-clothespin came in a five pack for $1
Total cost for seasonal accents: $5-$6

     So, we've covered Valentine's Day and Easter. I wanted to show you one more switch. If you don't "do" Halloween, it would only take one or two little changes to make this feel perfectly "fall".

     So, still the same things: pitcher, tray, bowl, chalkboard. But now I've changed the red for orange. I pulled in my framed skull-it would be easy to find a similar printable online. Since it isn't exactly Halloween time, I "borrowed" my carrot cake Kisses-can you tell they aren't seasonally appropriate? Nope! I filled a small jar with goldfish, added a little jar with paper flags (actually from New Year's) and turned my Valentine's straws upside down and added some orange ones. I placed some little glassine sacks on the tray-to kind of imply that you should fill them with treats! I used glue dots to hold the ribbon on the underside of the chalkboard-no peeling paint this time, and of course, changed the Scripture. (Sorry-definitely not my best work!) So, if I can decorate for Halloween in April and make it passable, it should be easy to come up with a cute set-up when it is actually the appropriate time of year!

Cost breakdown:
-candy $3
-glassine sacks $1 at Michael's
-straws. I buy these in a huge pack from our local restaurant supply and picked out the orange ones. This many probably cost me less than $0.50
Total seasonal accents $4-$5

   I am not going to price the goldfish, flags or straws, as those were purchased for other reasons. This is what I am getting at-when you start by using what you have you drastically cut costs! Look around for things that are the right colors and figure out how to make them work for you. As you begin to develop colors that you prefer for certain holidays, you will know what colors of paper,washi tape and ribbon to keep on hand.

   So there you have it: easy seasonal decorations three ways. I didn't do Christmas because people don't usually struggle with that. Summer decorations are really open-ended, other than 4th of July you could do just about anything! I often take summer "off" other than 4th of July, because between decorating for graduations and birthdays there isn't much time. But you could add a hot pink or a neon green to these items and have a really fun display.

  I've realized that creativity for many does not come naturally-myself included! It is a muscle I have to exercise-the more I use it, the stronger it gets. I recognized after getting frustrated early on when things weren't perfect it requires a lot of grace, too. My efforts aren't being judged for a prize ribbon. In my home it is about bringing a smile to my family and guests, about finding the beauty in each season, and about celebrating even the small things. By surrounding myself with things I enjoy, it encourages contentment and gratitude. I don't have to spend a fortune to do that!

   So here's my challenge to you: see if you can set up a small display in your own home with *only* things you have around your house. What can you make or re-purpose? What can you mix up to add a festive touch? Then, go to my Facebook page and share a photo with me! I love inspiration. Already do something similar with your holiday decorations? Share that, too! Let me know what your best tips are! There's always something new to learn-I definitely don't have it all figure out.

Thursday, April 6, 2017

Simple Solutions to Update Your Seasonal Decor (Part 2)

 Find Part 1 to this series here!
     I'm excited to share some more ideas on updating your seasonal decorations! These are pretty photo-heavy posts, but I think the concepts are easier to understand when you can see what I'm saying. Seasonal decorating doesn't have to be expensive, time-consuming or clutter-y. I'm eager to show you how adding one or two things to what you already have in your home will help to create a festive atmosphere without making you crazy!

4. Add one or two things that are distinctively seasonal.

     My kitchen colors are red, and I keep a red felt wreath in there and when it matches my holiday colors I just find something to stick on it that pulls it all together. For Christmas, I add an ornament or two in turquoise, usually a snowflake or Christmas tree. For 4th of July, I added this little bunting and anchor (Dollar Spot at Target) to make it go with my theme.

    Look again at the photo from my Easter decorations this year.
  The only item in this picture that I have to store is the eggs. (I'll tell you more about my system for printables in a minute.) I often use candy as one of my elements because it is consumable, so I don't have to store it! The Peeps never get eaten, but at around $1 (I get them on sale at Target) I don't feel guilty about tossing them at the end of the month. They shouldn't be eaten anyway, in my mind!
 I chose plain white eggs. The eggs are meant to be dye-able, but I leave them plain white because then they go with any color scheme!

5. Go "disposable"!
   If you have every paid any attention to my posts about decorating I use two things fairly frequently: candy and fresh flowers. In the Easter photo above, those are $4 bouquet from Trader Joe's. They will most likely last the week and a half until Easter, so definitely worth the money, in my opinion. And I don't have to store them!
    This is a great example of using candy. I bought a dollar's worth of red and white gummy bears from Winco, picked all the red Sour Patch kids out of a clearance bag of Christmas ones, and bought Sixlets at the Dollar Tree. I shamelessly pulled the skull sketch my cousin did for me because I loved the funky vibe it gave this vignette. Candy is also "disposable"-as in, if my family doesn't eat it (Over the span of time that I usually have decor up they will munch on it, and then once I pull everything down I put it in a designated spot where they know they can go whole-hog!) I have no problem tossing it-although I can often find friends who are willing to take it off my hands. 

   People will ask about the temptation of having all that candy around, and I have a few things that help in that department: I will often buy candy I personally won't eat (Sixlets? Peeps? GROSS!). I also use really small quantities (the Sour Patch kids, for example) so I'm not tempted because I don't want to ruin my display. Also, constantly having candy available actually encourages me personally *not* to eat it, as I know I can always have some later. I can usually keep putting it off so "later" never comes! Ha! 

6. Change up your chalkboards and frames!

 If you haven't noticed yet, I get my money's worth from this little chalkboard. It gets a makeover for every season. I paid $3 for it from Target's Dollar Spot. Best decorating purchase-EVER! I look up ideas on Pinterest and do my best "third grader imitating professional" art on them. The handmade look is in, right? Scripture is always my go-to choice for what to write on them. 

 I spent a little bit of time (a couple of hours on Pinterest looking at tutorials) and realized the easiest thing to making your chalk art look better is to emphasize the "down" strokes of your letter. Just that simple thing makes all your work look more artistic! Two tips: first ALWAYS season your new chalkboards by completely covering them with plain white chalk-actual chalk, not chalk markers or pencils! This will keep them from being ruined by having whatever you first write on them permanently stuck on them. I made that mistake with this one and I had to buy chalk paint to cover it and fix that. Now that I have seasoned it, I don't have that problem. Second recommendation: use real chalk on actual chalkboards. It gives it the most authentic look and erases better. I have a multi-colored pack of chalk from Target that was less than $2 and I use that all the time. If you have a metal chalkboard like the tiny one in the photo with the green books chalk markers are a better pic for that type. Also, if you don't plan on erasing it, chalk markers are more precise and long-lasting. I used those on the hanging chalkboard in the Valentine set-up. 

  The frame above is the equivalent of the chalkboard. It gets a new printable or something each season. That costs almost nothing-just the cost of ink. If you aren't into creating your own, I have lots available here on the blog (search "printable") or Pinterest has tons! The two sizes I use most frequently are 8x10 and 5x7. Here is my best tip for frames: keep your prints stored in them! I keep the cardboard insert that comes with most frames, or even just the stock photo that comes in them, and I file whatever isn't being "presented" behind that. In some frames I have as many as 4 or 5 different photos or printables in there at any given time.

Side note: The set-up above was a great example of using what I had on hand. I wanted a "back-to-school" theme so I just arranged my kids' school supplies in a cute way!

7. Use paper or washi tape to get your desired effect. 
       The garland above (from "The Grinch Christmas Party") is one of my favorites, but it was also one of the easiest. I simply used strips of paper, cut in a matter of minutes with my tiny little paper cutter, and chopped them to different lengths and then I hot glued them to the back of a ribbon. The whole thing took maybe 15 minutes but was so gratifying! No talent necessary. I have a whole post on how to whip up easy paper garlands you should check out if you need more ideas. 

    This entire wreath was made out of paper. I hoped to day share the tutorial, but suffice it to say it was practically free, as I backed it with cardboard I cut from a box, and used a few sheets of paper and some hot glue to put it together. Paper is one of the least expensive things, but it makes a big impact! (Side note: here are some more books, but this time they are contributing to a "back-to-school" theme! "Free" decor! And what is more appropriate for that then my old-fashioned school bell?) 
      I limit myself to the amount of paper that will fit in a 12x12 storage container from Michael's that is about 4 inches deep. It holds all my paper and felt, and I usually can dig through to find what I want. Otherwise, it is a good excuse to run to Hobby Lobby and buy a dollar's worth of paper to match! I try to stick with paper that is one or two colors and patterned, but not specifically holiday. The ones above were from a pack and I had them leftover from a wreath I made, so they are kind of an exception. 
   Washi tape is another easy way to make seasonal decorations. The piece above was all washi. (Find the tutorial here.)I don't keep 500 rolls, but I do keep a small shoebox full and trust me, it's totally worth it.
 I made the shamrock in the photo with the succulent out of washi, too. I did that one a little differently, I laid strips on cardstock and then cut them out with a paper punch. And see, the washi helped me out here, too. 
  This "tree" is a great example of how handy washi can be! This is actually decorator masking tape, but same idea. This was so cheap, but made such great impact!

8. When in doubt go with white (or glass).
    I've shared this tip in regards to party-planning, but it bears repeating here, too. When you are purchasing decorative elements or dishware, you can't really go wrong with buying classic white or glass. I don't have a huge amount of space to store things, but I get my money's worth out of a small collection of items. This isn't an exhaustive list, but it gives you an idea of my most used pieces. Amusingly, many of them are in the photo above!

They are:
-2 olive trays, one small and one larger
-several assorted (one cup volume or less) plastic and ceramic white dishes. I have a square one I am particularly fond of.
-cylindrical glass vases. Two sizes. I bought the 7 inch one at the dollar store. That's the one in the photo above filled with the eggs. I also have a larger one for bigger arrangements.
-small white cake plate. Mine is actually plastic and it is hilariously from the Halloween decor at Target. It was on mega clearance and I only paid like $0.50 for it. Pick one up at a yard sale or in the Dollar Spot for $3-$5.
-larger white cake plate. Having two coordinating cake plates allows me to stack them onto each other for a tiered effect. They don't have to match perfectly! My big one is square and ceramic, the smaller one round and plastic.
-various jars. I keep mason jars in both pint and quart sizes. I use these for food storage when they aren't serving decorative purposes. The container in the photo above with the silver lid is a favorite. You can get that style at Hobby Lobby for around $3. Choose things you can use for storage year-round so you aren't making space for empty containers for months! That defeats the purpose. Most of mine live in my pantry filled with boring things like fruit snacks and granola bars. When I want them for decorating, I unceremoniously dump them in a bowl or basket, wash them out and they are ready to go!

   Obviously, you can adjust these to suit your own decor style and colors. You could easily substitute metals (silver, gold, etc.) as those will go with most any color scheme. You can be a little more flexible with frames-I have a variety in both metal and black. I also have a couple of colored ones.

   This is such a tiny amount of stuff that if you *had* to store it it would all fit in a small storage container. However, find a place for it in your everyday decorating and you've made it work double duty!

    So that pretty much finishes up my broad-stroke tips for the best ways to decorate seasonally without spending a ton of time or money, or having a garage full of decorations. However, sometimes it is still hard to figure out to put those things into practice, so I have one final post in this series where I will break down the steps and show you a mock set-up. It may seem like I have the "right" colors or items to make these tips work, and you have different colors and you don't collect weird things like glass skulls, hand-held school bells and garden gnomes. But my tips will still work! I promise-you can do it.
Looking for the last post in this series? Find it here:
Part 3

Tuesday, April 4, 2017

Simple Solutions To Update Your Seasonal Decor (Part 1)

     I love to change up my decorations around the house. If you know me, or have followed my blog for any length of time, you have seen some of the parties I have planned. To me, decorating for the changing seasons is a smaller scale version, but one I get to enjoy for longer than the few hours a party lasts.

    However, if I fell into the trap that I needed to buy new things for every holiday and season, that can get expensive. Even just storing stuff for the six or so times a year that I change things can be overwhelming. Can you imagine if I had a separate storage tote for all that stuff in addition to the several I have just for Christmas? I wouldn't have room for anything else! So, I had to come up with a better way. The system I have now works so well, I thought I would share it with you, in case you are looking for ideas for your own home!

      First, I thought I would show you this year's Easter decorations. I went with a yellow and purple theme (I'll tell you why in just a few minutes). I always decorate the top of my microwave (weird, I know, but that's just how it works out) so that space doesn't have any "permanent" decorations. That makes it easy to switch things around without having to store anything. So, I guess that is really my first tip!

1. Keep a (or several) small area(s) clutter-free so you have an easy space to decorate for any holiday.

      The other area that I always keep pretty clear for seasonal decorations is a small bookcase in my living room. Same concept-it has nothing that lives there so it is easy to move things around. When I know which spaces I routinely decorate it makes it easy to form my plan based on my needs. I never need anything too large, I have a nail above each space for hanging items, since I have kids I never choose anything too precious!
    These are the decorations from last year. Do you spy any of the same things? Yet, it is still different because I used some different pieces and this color scheme also had turquoise in it.
   Sometimes I decide to go a step further and I decorate my Expedit bookshelf. With the exception of Christmas, I almost always limit my seasonal decorating areas to the living room. They get the greatest amount of exposure there, but yet it helps me have some boundaries so I don't go overboard.
     And finally, these are decorations for the same season from 2015. Obviously, this color scheme was purple and turquoise. Now that you have viewed three years' worth of my Easter decorations, are you starting to see some patterns? Yet, every year there are some things that are different, too.

 2.Use colors that are already present in your year-round decor.
 Let me share with you what I have figured out. One of the biggest keys to making my seasonal decorations more frugal, and less craziness inducing, is to choose a color that is already part of my permanent decor scheme! My primary living room colors are turquoise, yellow and lime green. So in 2015, I chose turquoise. In 2016, I went with two of the three, yellow and turquoise again. In 2017, I went with yellow.

     This may seem complicated, but it really isn't. Here is another example:
  This is my Christmas decor from 2016, I think. (I can't exactly remember, those colors stay the same each year). Even for Christmas I made my colors work for me, choosing red to go with the turquoise blue that was already there.

    For St. Patrick's Day I pull out the lime green things I own. For Valentine's Day, it is the red I have in my kitchen. For 4th of July, I can do turquoise or again, red. But by making sure I use at least one color I already have in my home, I can re-purpose, instead of purchasing things to store 10 months out of 12.

3. Pick items from your year-round decor and use them in your seasonal groupings.
    See on the shelf in the Christmas photo above, on the right hand, the blue gnome? Not surprisingly, he also makes an appearance in 2015's Easter vignette. Except now, instead of appearing "elf"-like, as in the Christmas picture, he looks more garden gnome, right? Same object, but different placement.

      For St. Patrick's Day I decided to host a last-minute gathering and I only had about an hour to put together something cute. I gathered all my books that had green bindings and stacked them together with a green frame on top in one spot in the house. I didn't use a single store-bought "holiday" item, but having like items grouped together in a festive color conveyed the same idea. I also grabbed that "Trust in the Lord" sign to add to the grouping. I am not an artist, so please excuse my pitiful humble artwork.

     This little succulent got dressed up with a little washi tape. I keep the plant year-round, but for St. Patrick's Day it got a place of honor as the "centerpiece" for the table. Nobody would say a succulent is specific to that holiday, but with a little seasonally-coordinated tape it definitely adds to the vibe, right?

   This Valentine set-up is a favorite example of pulling from your own decor. The Fu Dog is a piece I keep out year-round, as is the silver school bell. A few "gold" (brown) books prop up a kissing photo-so "Valentine" but another thing I keep out all year! And see the "Trust in the Lord" sign? All these things look fresh and festive when I put them with a heart-shaped banner that declares, "Look at me! I've decorated for Valentine's Day!".  I didn't use any "traditional" Valentine colors, but I still think it looks appropriate.

    Wow! This post kind of took on a life of its own! I wasn't planning on turning this into a series, but it seems to be appropriate. I'm so excited to share more of my thoughts and ideas. So, has anything made you consider how you can use what you already have to make your house dressed up for the season?

Looking for the rest of the series? Find them here:
Part 2
Part 3


Friday, March 31, 2017

Easy Ways to Be Earth Friendly

       When I was eight years old I attended a homeschool conference with my family. I don't remember everything about it, but my mom signed me up for different sessions and she didn't inquire about my preferences in the matter. One of the sessions she enrolled me in was "Recycling". Even at eight I had very definite opinions about...everything, and I remember asking my mom why she put me in such a weird class. How boring would a class about recycling be?! But, as usual, mom knows best, and it ended up being the most interesting class of the conference. I was fascinated by how useful, frugal and "green" recycling was. Even at eight, I realized that seeking to be kind to the world God made was a type of good stewardship.

      I don't remember everything I learned in that class, but I have always tried to remember that making the best use of the things we have is a way we can honor the Lord.

     " To the Lord your God belong the heavens, even the highest heavens,the earth and everything in it." Deuteronomy 10:14 NIV
    So, since Earth Day is coming up, I thought I would share some of the things that I do to be not just "earth friendly", but also frugal! It constantly amazes me how frequently those things go hand-in-hand!

1. My reusable water bottle. My mom (see above!) introduced me to these water bottles. I am ashamed to admit that for *years* I have been a dedicated bottled water drinker. Like as many as five bottles a day. While we do recycle,  and only pay about $0.10 each for the kind we drink, it was a habit that I kept trying to break. But plastic reusable bottles, even the expensive CamelBak type, just didn't cut it for me. I had no idea that it was because I wanted my water to stay cold! These "S'well" bottles  keep my water cold for hours, they are super cute, and while they may not seem frugal, I figured that at the cost of bottled water, it would only take a couple of months to make my investment worthwhile. I was fortunate though, that my sister gave me mine for a birthday present! I switched to using a Brita pitcher, and so I just fill my bottle with cold water throughout the day. I have never had much trouble drinking enough water, but now I can do it without feeling guilty!

2. Dryer Balls. So, these actually came about because my current washer does not have a fabric softener dispenser. I tried a Downy ball. It would dump after the spin cycle, forcing me to re-wash my entire load. I tried a type of spray-on fabric softener. It constantly clogged its own dispenser and was expensive to replace. I have never been a fan of softener sheets. So after using my oldest sister's dryer balls, I decided it was time to get my own! I use a combination of the wool ones I linked to, and a set of these that another sister gifted me. I have puffer fish, but those hedgehogs are too cute! Anyway, I line dry a lot of our clothes, using two indoor drying racks (we live in an apartment) but I often give them a quick fluff in the dryer to take the stiffness out. During the winter I have to dry more things in the dryer, too, as it takes longer for them to get dry. I have been using dryer balls exclusively for the last year and half, and I haven't looked back. I haven't bought fabric softener or had any more trouble with static than I had previously (pro tip: static is caused by clothes drying at different rates so try to wash like fabrics together to minimize that!). So, I am saving money, and not putting more chemicals in the water system, and not needing to recycle or trash bottles from product. Win!

3. Reusable bags. The little owl in the photo above is actually a reusable tote! I loved it so much I bought one for each of my sisters. I have had that one for over two years and it is definitely my favorite. Why? Because it folds up so small I keep it in my purse. I don't always carry a big purse, but there is always room for that bag. Because I always have it in my purse I have used it countless times when I would have otherwise had to put my purchases in a plastic bag. When I get home, I empty it and put it back in my purse. It is no more work that emptying and dealing with a plastic bag. That little guy was about $2 in store (World Market) and I have definitely gotten my money's worth. I keep other reuseable bags in my car for grocery trips and Target runs, but even when I am not in my own car having a folded bag in my purse means I can skip the plastic bags! Love.

4. Cloth napkins. This is one of those things that people roll their eyes over and swear they could never make it work. But honestly: have you tried it? It is one of the best "green" switches I have made. I hate paper napkins, and face it: they encourage wastefulness! Rarely can you use just one. I am a fairly messy eater (just being honest) but I can make a single cloth napkin last all day. I converted my husband to using them too, and now he won't use anything else. Plus, they are far more useful than a paper napkin. It only takes one to clean up small spills, and they are great for wrapping around cold drinks (like my morning smoothie) or to use as a make-shift potholder. I think it is well worth the tiny bit of extra laundry they make. I keep them folded in my silverware drawer for easy access, and I have about 14 for our family of four and I rarely run out unless I don't do laundry for days. My biggest tip here: dark colors! They hide stains better. I have this kind from Target and the original ones I purchased almost six years ago are still going strong!

5. Re-using zippered plastic bags. This one is one of those that people think is a little ridiculous. I myself find it to be really easy and kind of a no-brainer. Plastic bags are expensive. Often they are just holding frozen fruit or pieces of pizza in my refrigerator. Why would I *not* wash them out and re-use them? I simply put them in with my hand wash dishes and then stick them over a spoon handle or a glass in my dish drainer to dry them out. Once they are clean I put them in a gallon ziploc that I have on the side of my fridge (I keep it there with a magnet inside). I don't reuse any that have had raw meat in them, but when I divide up my ground beef from Costco to freeze it is great to know that I can grab a bag that has already served a useful purpose before it has one last job holding raw meat. Then I can toss it without feeling like I am throwing out money and making extra trash.

    I try to do other things to, but these are the ones that I found the easiest to integrate into my every day life. Some other things I do:

-reusable straws
-no paper plates (Except for company! Ha!)
-only fabric cleaning cloths
-no paper towels (Except for cooking microwaveable bacon!)
-not putting my produce in bags at the store (I have reusable ones I use sometimes, but often I just skip it altogether)
-limiting "single serve" items to reduce packaging
-using as much natural lighting as possible during the day
-using lamps instead of overhead lighting
-keeping the heat low and the a/c high
-only using "real" dishes and silverware when I pack my lunch
-trying to limit food waste (freezing things, making applesauce or banana bread, etc.)

   I figure that every little bit helps! I am always looking for ways to make small changes that hopefully add up. Do you have any tips for things you do to be "green" or earth friendly?

Tuesday, March 21, 2017

2017 Goals Update

My goals with my dinner, because they looked a little more interesting that way. ;)
       I don't think I ever shared my goals for 2017. Each year I try to choose a couple different areas to focus on, and I usually try to be fairly specific. I don't always complete everything, but it is motivating to have some things to focus on, and I always figure that progress is a reward in and of itself.

    I have done some big time "adulting" lately: I scheduled a dentist's appointment (We changed insurances, so it was a lot more complicated than just calling for a date.), we bought a new mattress (I bravely purchased one online. It is due to be delivered new week, we are very excited to see if our leap of faith is rewarded!), I have been doing some serious de-cluttering as part of my Lent discipline, and of course, all the usual every day things that accompany being a stay-at-home wife and homeschooling mom!

    But anyway, I decided that I was proud of myself for the progress that I am making, and my 2017 goal progress is part of it! So, here are my goals (Don't make fun of them!) and where I am at:

1. Decrease sugary drinks, and the amount of sugar in drinks. This one I wasn't hugely specific writing it down, but I had some certain things in mind. I love my afternoon coffee, and I had moved away from measuring the amount of sweetened creamer I used, and I had also been drinking soda almost every day. I have been recording the days that I have not had soda, and that is really helping. Actually, as of today, I haven't had any soda in a week! I have cut the amount of creamer I am using at home in half, too. Also, I have gone back to ordering a small size if I am drinking coffee out, which is definitely decreasing my sugared drink intake. This goal won't be accomplished if I don't maintain it, so that is really my focus now.

2. Learn to use eye shadow. Zero progress on this one. Just being honest. The only thing I have done is tell my youngest sister she has to help me. Hoping to mark this one off this summer, I should probably start by actually buying some eye shadow!

3. Finish T & T book. My kids are in Awana, and my husband and I volunteer. I, personally, though, have never done any of the books. They changed the 3rd-6th grade program this year and all the students are doing the same book. I decided that would be a good point for me to jump in, so I am working through the book with my kids.Memorizing Bible verses is an area I really needed to work on. I am a little behind right now, but I found a really cool app called "Verses" that I am using now, and it has made a huge difference! I should be done with this goal by May, if I manage to get back on track. It would be fantastic if I finished up at the same time as my kids! Carson has been a huge encouragement to me in this area, and I am so proud of myself. I have learned over twenty new verses since September!

4. Read twelve books I already own. I have finished three, and I am fairly sure that I should be able to accomplish this, as I tend to read more over the summer. I am working on a fourth, but I am tackling some of the classics, and they tend to be more "slog" than "skim"! I wanted to read books I owned versus borrowing them, as I kind of tend to buy a book then stick it on a shelf while I try to get through books I have borrowed from family or the library. (I may have cheated a tiny bit by buying "The Handmaid's Tale" but I figured once I purchased it, it qualified as a book I owned! And I'm making the rules, anyway. It was totally worth it, by the way, if you like dystopian novels!)

5. Finish three photo books. I made big time progress on that this weekend! I had a "free" book code, so I got to work. I was doing really well, then I got a second code! I had to hustle, but I finished with 30 minutes left before the code expired. Pretty proud that I knocked two out of three off! However, the last minute crunch was a good thing in that it motivated me to get the next few months of photos uploaded and organize a ton of others. I am hoping now to finish 2014 in the next few months. I usually put 2-3 months in each book, and yes, I am definitely behind, but I also started using Chatbooks, so I have printed photos starting in January 2015, so I will get caught up eventually! I've made so much headway in this area since I began, I am confident that some day I won't have years worth of un-printed photos looming over my head. Someday.

     I don't have a hard-and-fast rule about only making goals at the beginning of the year, although I do enjoy the freshness of January 1st. I made a goal in February to finish a specific workout program, and I will do that next week, Lord willing! So where are you with your goals?

Tuesday, February 28, 2017

National Park Baby Shower

      I haven't posted any baby showers in a while, but it isn't because I haven't done any. I actually did an outdoor "lumberjack" themed shower back in the fall, but I didn't post about it. That one came together fairly easily and actually turned out cuter than I had even hoped. This story is a little different...

    As a refresher if you are reading this and you don't know me "in real life", I am from a large family and have five sisters. My oldest sister has kids, I, of course, have kids, but none of the "little girls" (the collective nickname for the set of sisters that are separated from my oldest sister and me by at least ten years or more) hadn't reached that milestone. Until this year! The fourth sister is expecting, due in April, and everyone is deliriously happy for her, she is made to be a mom.

    So, that mandated a better than ordinary shower effort. I truly do put my heart into any party that I plan, but this one, well, I wanted it to be *special*. Which meant it caused me to completely freak out. I could NOT get my "vision" for the look to come together. I spent excessive amounts of time on Pinterest, and discussed it at length with the other sisters but I was still having a hard time getting it to come together.

    We went with a National Park theme because, if you have ever checked out any of my other shower themes, you know I love to use the nursery decor as the jumping-off point for ideas. I love that many of the shower items can be re-used in the nursery, and it also helps to narrow down the billions of themes the Internet is happy to barrage you with. So, since she was doing a NP theme for the nursery (with colors of turquoise and orange) that dictated the shower theme.

    Yeah. Not as easy as it sounds! I felt like we veered a tiny bit into "camping" but you can't hardly think of one without the other. That may be why it was so hard for me to channel inspiration, because I do *NOT* camp. But I do love a National Park, I can thank my Dad for that. He didn't come to the shower, but I know he really appreciated the theme and is proud that he instilled in all of us kids a deep appreciation for America's parks!

   I frequently have to remind myself that when I am struggling with a party, I just need to do something. Crafting helps me to sort out what direction I want to take. The first piece I made for this shower was my favorite: a mobile. I crafted every little mountain and cloud with my own two hands. I love that the sun is the focal point, and helps to tie in the orange. I hung it in the middle of the circle of chairs. If you don't recognize the drab walls and enormous room from previous parties, it's the fellowship hall at our church. It's a beast to decorate, and I would know because I've done it a number of times! However, it is a great blank slate, and the best place to hold the 30+ women who attended. 
   Seriously, I think people are under the mis-impression that I have it all together. Nope. Wrong. I was literally gluing moss to the "L" (that's the baby's first initial) at 9:00 am. The shower was at 10:00 am. Yup. That's how I roll. I used the "vase-within-a-vase" technique for the tulips. The little jars have tea lights in them and they are from Hobby Lobby. I just added the brown ribbon for hanging. The outer vase was lined with these cool wood slices from Hobby Lobby that my oldest sister supplied. She also sent the pieces to put together the favors in the center.

  The favors were easy-trail mix, of course! I created the labels with the Avery online label making software and printed them onto Avery label stickers. My oldest sister sent the bags (they are brown paper eco-friendly sandwich sacks, so cute!), we filled them with a serving of trail mix, closed them with washi and slapped the label on. My dear husband actually put them together after I made him a sample. The "yeti" pun was my own creation-I cannot resist the opportunity to be "pun-y"! Ha!

   You can see it best in this photo but the "table cloths" are actually pieces of brown kraft wrapping paper from the Dollar Tree. My mom and daughter stamped them with the arrows to up the cute factor.
    This printable is a riff that I did on one from Pinterest that I couldn't source. I loved the image of the lantern with the verse on it, so I found a similar graphic on PicMonkey. I will try to put the printable up on the blog. Eventually!
   My husband is still recovering from knee surgery so he got big time sucked in to baby shower prep. He painted the little cone mountains and tree for me. Big heart eye emoji for a guy who pitches in and does not judge his wife (too harshly) for her tendencies to go overboard and be a giant walking stress ball leading up to these events. The owl vase is from my home and the beautiful orange Gerbera daisies are from Trader Joe's. The confetti is from Hobby Lobby, and the Yosemite canvas is TJ Maxx, I believe. (My mom bought it for my sister.)
   These images are from old calendars that my sister bought at a discount. I loved the visual impact that gave, and they filled up a pretty decent chunk of space for cheap. That is always a win in my book!

  Not the best photo of me. The guest of honor was as cute as a button, though! She hardly looks pregnant. However awful I may look, it still gives a better idea of the scale of the collage.

     I like pulling furniture into this large space because it makes it feel less sterile.  The stuffed animals are ones my sister has collected for the baby's room (She graciously lent me things she already had so that I wouldn't go over budget!) My oldest sister supplied the cute tree cut-outs, they are wood pieces with the bark left on. I made a garland with them and more of the log slices to form the baby's initials. The middle name is a secret, so I left that blank until after he is born. The arrows are from Hobby Lobby, I propped them up in a vase with rocks, the canvas from TJ Maxx. One of my sweet cousins made the origami forest and foxes (so cute!) and the lantern is an old VBS prop. The little trees I borrowed from my church. For a small church, we have a great selection of decor pieces.
    The really cool NP canvas is actually my Dad's. It has a space for each park and he has stickers on all the ones he has visited. Fun! My expecting sister wanted to make the mountain garland, so as weird as it is for the guest of honor to make decorations, I couldn't turn her down. The moose head is a stuffed animal, the garland of mounted heads are clearance Target ornaments.
   The tent is hilarious. I really wanted one, but couldn't find exactly what I was looking for. This is actually PVC pipes I found at the church rigged together and covered with orange plastic tablecloths. It is held together by hopes and prayers! Ha! It was a perfect place to put the gifts. The cool mountain backdrop was painted by another talented cousin. I have zero actual art ability. The trees were loaned from my aunt, and the bears are a fun story. My sister got one as child (maybe 3 years old?) and when she found out she was having a boy she found one on eBay and bought it so the baby would have a matching one. So sweet!
My mom handled all the food. (I cannot do both, no matter how hard I try.) and did a great job. She recreated these cute campfire cupcakes from Pinterest. My aunt made the cool food labels.
   I looooved how this turned out. It is well over one hundred triangle punches I hot-glued to ribbon and hung in an ombre pattern on a branch from my aunt's yard. It served as the backdrop to the food table.
My mom provided the cute metal crate, the stuffed animals and the "Adventure" sign. They are all from Hobby Lobby. 

   I hand-sewed the teepee pillow, and created the printable in PicMonkey, again based on a Pinterest image (although that one did not have Scripture). The metal bin is from Hobby Lobby. The National Parks lantern is my brother's.
   One of my sisters made the hedgehog cheese ball. So cute! The really fun part is that the baby's nickname is "Hedgehog" or "Hedgie" for short. So perfect, too.

 This is one thing that I wished had photographed better. I used twine and tiny clothespins (from the Dollar Tree) to hang my sister's collection of WPA National Parks postcards. It was fun to see the one that I had sent her years ago! I was honored that she kept it.
My youngest sister came up with this adorable game based on one we played online. We set up a table covered with more wrapping paper and simply printed the instruction on it with Sharpie. We made a numbered list and encouraged people to add a children's song, book or movie title to it, but to substitute at least one of the words in the title with "Hedgehog" or "Hedgie". You could do this with any baby nickname, or any shower associated word. We told the guests to continue to add their entries during the party, and to initial them. We also said we would end the game at a undisclosed time. We had over 60 entries by the time we ended, and gave prizes to the last two on the list. It was a great way to keep people talking!

   It was a really fun shower. We are just getting started in the "sister shower" department, though. Another wedding later this year, and I am guessing this is only the beginning of the babies...Not sad about that, for sure!


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